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Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

I always knew I was kinky (more on that tomorrow and the next day) but I didn’t realize that there was a word for it, and other people that were like me, until browsing Literotica.com in my early teens. I just clicked the random button until I found one that I liked, and looked at related ones. It became clear that they were all in the BDSM or Nonconsent/Reluctance categories, and as I kept reading I discovered that there was an entire underground community there for me to explore.

Since these discoveries come at a relatively young age, I wasn’t shy about sex or my interests and was able to articulate to my first sexual partners what I wanted quite specifically, even though I hadn’t engaged in any of the actual practices yet.