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Day 10: What are your hard limits?

For those who don’t know, a hard limit is something that a sub (or a dom) refuses to do, under any circumstances. A responsible partner will do everything to assure that their charge will not have to deal with any of these things.

There shall be no:

  • snuff
  • necrophilia
  • scat
  • vomit (I have a phobia; this would not only gross me out but cause a panic attack and probably emotional trauma. If I or someone around me threw up, especially during sex, I wouldn’t be okay for days.)
  • minors (both having sex with them and producing them)
  • bestiality
  • gratuitous public nudity (public as in, on the street. In a space designed for activity of this sort, sure.)
  • incest
  • feet (ever since I accidentally discovered foot fetish porn, being touched by feet makes me cry. But a little bit is okay.)
  • permanent body modification (piercings are fine if done by a professional)
  • actual harm (like bleeding too much)
  • swallowing of urine
  • extreme pain (it’s likely I’ll pass out)