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Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed?  How so?

Obviously, as I continue to grow and explore, my tastes have changed and expanded. As far as I can remember, I was only into nonconsent and objectification at first. It wasn’t until I started watching porn that I came to associate other activities or objects or dynamics with what I was truly interested in. That’s how my list of kinks grew and became more diverse and specific.

Also, I never truly believed that I could find a partner who would share my tastes. I was convinced that my kinks and fetishes would turn away potential partners. By the time I was actually sexually active, I was more comfortable with and open about my kinks, but there were quite a few years that I resented my sexuality. I am so thankful to have found J, who is a saint and encourages to let my freak flag fly.