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Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

I have engaged in cyber sex before, and it is relatively enjoyable. Before I was sexually active, and before the invention of skype, I used to cyber over AIM with the guy I had a crush on, but it didn’t involve any BDSM. When J and I are apart, we will occasionally mutually masturbate over Skype. And once a drunk Domme on Fetlife ordered me to masturbate for her, but my Dad accidentally walked in on us and it wasn’t that great overall. I approve of cyber sex during dry spells, but obviously play in real life is so much better.

To have a Master or a sub online does strike me as a little weird, though I’m not judging anyone who does so. I know a girl a year younger than me who has an internet dom who doesn’t let her hang out with me if J is there. Obviously not all internet doms are like that, but the entire system seems rife with flaws.

Really, nothing is as fulfilling as real-life BDSM play. It’s much more exhilarating to struggle, to be made to feel pain, to be truly caught and captured. Online play doesn’t offer any of that.