Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?
A week after J and I became official, we went on a Valentine’s Day trip to a nerd convention at the college that my best friend attends. Among the many-sided dice and the Star Trek swag, there was a guy selling leather things– dice bags, renfaire gear, and conspicuously, collars. Even though I was so embarrassed I wanted to die, J bought me one that was gaudy and fit for a dog, but we forgot to try it on and it ended up being too big so we had to replace it with this one, which I like a lot better. Besides being absolutely gorgeous, it is subtle enough to pass as a regular necklace but juuust tight enough to make sure you don’t forget it’s there. Continue reading