Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically, define your kinky self for us.
I am a submissive through and through, but on the rare occasions when I am asked to perform as a dom I am extremely cruel. ^.^
In my vanilla life, I am anything but submissive, to anybody: I am non-traditional, outspoken, and occasionally outright rebellious. I barely take advice, let alone orders. But in bed (and sometimes out of it) nothing makes me feel as safe, protected, and cherished as handing the reigns over to someone else. It helps me to relieve stress and regain sanity in a way that nothing else, including vanilla sex, can. I hope that it also shows J how much I implicitly trust him. Continue reading