Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?
Any activity between consenting adults is moral, across the board.
Safe words are a common concern, but in my opinion it depends on how well you know your partner. If they are just a hookup, and for some reason you trust them enough to let them tie you up, then you should definitely have a safe word. Same goes for regular playmates. But if you and your partner have been together for a while and are confident in your ability to understand the others’ verbal or nonverbal cues, then anything goes. I think that they are a good idea, but not implicitly necessary.
J and I started out without a safeword, but we have adopted one in light of the incident I will tell you about tomorrow…