I was ditzin’ around the blagosphere and came across a lovely and thoughtful questionnaire by Rachel Rabbit White, inviting her readers to answer each question on a scale of one to ten. I love contemplating weird stuff, and so I’m gonna answer these questions publicly. But I invite all subs, switches, and slaves to think about their submission deeply, because obviously it’s an important part of our own identities and what distinguishes us from others. If you decide to complete it yourself, leave me a comment with a link. 🙂 Continue reading
Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically, define your kinky self for us.
I am a submissive through and through, but on the rare occasions when I am asked to perform as a dom I am extremely cruel. ^.^
In my vanilla life, I am anything but submissive, to anybody: I am non-traditional, outspoken, and occasionally outright rebellious. I barely take advice, let alone orders. But in bed (and sometimes out of it) nothing makes me feel as safe, protected, and cherished as handing the reigns over to someone else. It helps me to relieve stress and regain sanity in a way that nothing else, including vanilla sex, can. I hope that it also shows J how much I implicitly trust him. Continue reading